Many young men growing up dreamed of an incredibly built woman who would corner them to make a spectacular seduction that included all the bells and whistles of their fantasies.  As they grew older, the woman didn’t have to be incredibly built.  And by then the seduction didn’t really have to be spectacular.  And the bells and whistles didn’t really have to be that loud.  It’s called Maturity.  Guys figured that a woman who would act like that right off the bat would do that with anyone.  They began thinking about a woman as someone who would exclusively share their lives, instead of just performing a service.  That led to a conclusion that was as unlikely in youth as it makes sense to a man.   There is nothing more sexy than a woman who knows how to carry herself.